rosycheeksandlashes said: (pssst! Prince Adam from Beauty and the Beast, but more mysterious and blonde!)

XD

veevigil:

littledoomwitch:

ittybittynymphette:

veevigil:

Calling a person trash after they state they may kill themselves, makes you a terrible person and you lose all credibility as a proper source for any kind of information.

That isn’t cool.  

Yeah… Agreed. It was a low blow.

I wouldn’t respond to this except for the fact that it’s on my dash.

Firstly, we had not spoken with Nihilistic-Void all evening. We had not harassed, nor even acknowledged her presence. There is no way that we could have possibly been at all responsible for any of her feelings.

Secondly, her response came from no where. She reblogged a conversation between Mod D and RogueSareth that was unrelated to herself and stated, and I quote, “Shut the fuck up before I kill myself or somebody else.” This kind of a comment in the first place is absolutely unreasonable.

"Why would you say she’s trash in response to that?" For multiple reasons: The two stated above. She has directly antagonized us in the past and the fact that the response itself is directly antagonizing doesn’t make for a very welcome comment. Secondly, the very comment itself is emotionally manipulative. It puts the blame for any kind of suicidal and homocidal thoughts on our shoulders, and makes it our fault. I have had to deal with people using this kind of emotional manipulation in the past, and it’s not an acceptable behavior.

Furthermore, neither Mod D nor I keep up with Nihilistic-Void to know about her emotional state, and when stated in such a manner it’s absolutely reasonable that I would take it as characteristic hyperbole on her part.

As I’ve stated before, I would absolutely never encourage someone to commit suicide, no matter what my opinion of someone is. I wouldn’t and don’t support the idea of Nihilistic-Void committing suicide. If you want to target some people on that front, there’s literally someone (harliqueen?) on her blog telling her to do it and calling her a pussy.

I sincerely apologize for how the response came off. And I’d like to directly apologize to nihilistic-void if the comment came off as encouraging any suicidal thoughts. From someone who’s gone through similar situations, and from the bottom of my heart, I sincerely do hope that you feel better soon.

—Mod W

Thank you. Because I honestly didn’t think any of you mods would say such a thing without having a reason. So thank you. 

OK, fair enough and my thanks also.

Reblog if you want to be compared to a Disney character in your ask box!

klotzilla:

Cause I do, it’d make me sooo happy *__*!

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pranafaeryfiend:

nornoriel:

pranafaeryfiend:

nornoriel:

What up.

I’m Nono, mid-thirties, live in the greater Portland area, flamboyant gay trans dude (he/him/his pronouns).

I am pagan (specifically Abrahamic and Vanatru), a magic user, and have spirit companions. While this blog has a fair mix of stuff and is not strictly a pagan blog, there is…

Not a single mention of elf cock???????????????????

I KNEW I WAS FORGETTING SOMETHING, SHIT

I just lost a follower

*snicker*

XD

I notice when I start talking about elf cock I tend to lose at least 1-2 followers (probably people who didn’t realize they were following a blog called Nornoriel’s House of Elf Cock) and then gain a couple.  :P

Are you my soul brother? O.O We listen to A LOT of the same music. I think we are soul brothers. Holy shiyaattt!!!

*EXCITED FLAILING*

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

I love it when people share my musical tastes.  (I’ve gotten SO MUCH shit for being a metalhead, especially as a gay guy.  Because apparently if I’m not listening to Lady Gaga and RuPaul 24/7 I’m doing gay wrong.)

pranafaeryfiend:

nornoriel:

What up.

I’m Nono, mid-thirties, live in the greater Portland area, flamboyant gay trans dude (he/him/his pronouns).

I am pagan (specifically Abrahamic and Vanatru), a magic user, and have spirit companions. While this blog has a fair mix of stuff and is not strictly a pagan blog, there is…

Not a single mention of elf cock???????????????????

I KNEW I WAS FORGETTING SOMETHING, SHIT

gardenofwitheringtrust said: Hey you said you're a metalhead, what kind of music you listen to? :)

Oh man

I like a lot of things.  My favorite band is Tool (well Tool and A Perfect Circle), and I also really like Deftones (which is a close second; been a fan since 1996, and Koi No Yokan [their latest] was flawless).  I like Nine Inch Nails (which counts more as “industrial metal” or whatever).  I like prog metal like Queensryche and Dream Theater.  I like Type O Negative.  I like classic Metallica.  I really like Mastodon.  I like some Viking metal like Amon Amarth, Finntroll, Einherjar…  I like some nu-metal like Korn >.>

ALSO I REALLY LOVE PANTERA

I’ll also admit I like ass rock (e.g. Def Leppard, Motley Crue, Whitesnake) which isn’t really metal, but, yeah, ‘s my guilty pleasure.

My taste in music is pretty eclectic, I’m not strictly a metalhead, I also like a fair amount of R&B, rap, and electronic music (esp. industrial), but I seem to listen to metal the most.

I get a bit defensive when people I care about are hurting and have been what I perceived as attacked in some way.

I might be a bit Papa Wolf, yeah.

So I seem to have gained some new followers again

What up.

I’m Nono, mid-thirties, live in the greater Portland area, flamboyant gay trans dude (he/him/his pronouns).

I am pagan (specifically Abrahamic and Vanatru), a magic user, and have spirit companions.  While this blog has a fair mix of stuff and is not strictly a pagan blog, there is sometimes talk of the spoop here or the odd pagan-related rant.  I have been pagan for about twenty years now, and I don’t think I know everything, but I’m happy to take questions on the Vanir.

My life is in a fair amount of flux right now.  Some longstanding facets of my spirituality have been changing.  I am getting a handle on various medical issues (e.g. treatment for lifelong depression).  I am living with supportive, non-abusive people for the first time in my life.  I am learning what family is, both corporeally and non-corporeally.

I have piercings, I’m a metalhead, I work with demons and elves, I have cats, I write shitty poetry and make pretty jewelry and sometimes photomanips, I like smoking cloves, I might have a Starbucks addiction, my favorite color is purple, I am overly fond of the word “fuck”, and I have a reputation for being full of sass, though I try to not be a dick to people.

Welcome to the freak show, enjoy the ride.

satdeshret:

nornoriel:

satdeshret:

Ah…. I have missed drama.

I now know what the drama was about.

All I have to say is wow…… that was not okay. At all. If someone you don’t like expresses suicidal thoughts, I don’t care how ~fake~ and ~attention seeking~ you think they are, you’d don’t say stuff like that because your comment could be that last straw to their camel’s back. Just walk away.

^this.

It’s just best to assume that someone expressing suicidal thoughts is legitimately suicidal even if you think they’re not, because you’re not inside their head and you don’t know.

It’s also just best to not be a dick to someone on the Internet, period.  Really, how fucking hard is it to avoid arguments on Tumblr over pointless shit, or not be fucking snide for the sake of being snide? 

I would also like to state that threatening to kill one’s self if the other party doesn’t shut up is also not cool, but seeing as she’s been posting for a bit now about feeling suicidal I’m going to assume that she’s in a seriously bad place right now and probably didn’t think that one through.

Regardless of how not okay that threat was to make, the response to that threat was completely uncalled for and not cool. Especially when all it takes is a quick glance at NV’s blog to see that she’s been feeling pretty fucking suicidal.

Yep.

When my mental illness has flared up particularly bad I’ve said shit that I didn’t realize was kind of not OK until after the fact.  Something like that being met with being called trash or whatever would have sent me over the edge too.  (I’m doing a lot better now, but yeah, my brain has been a particularly not fun place at times.)

It’s kind of like death by a thousand papercuts.  You never know what’s going to be the last straw with someone.

satdeshret:

Ah…. I have missed drama.

I now know what the drama was about.

All I have to say is wow…… that was not okay. At all. If someone you don’t like expresses suicidal thoughts, I don’t care how ~fake~ and ~attention seeking~ you think they are, you’d don’t say stuff like that because your comment could be that last straw to their camel’s back. Just walk away.

^this.

It’s just best to assume that someone expressing suicidal thoughts is legitimately suicidal even if you think they’re not, because you’re not inside their head and you don’t know.

It’s also just best to not be a dick to someone on the Internet, period.  Really, how fucking hard is it to avoid arguments on Tumblr over pointless shit, or not be fucking snide for the sake of being snide? 

It may be too cold and rainy to go out and have a smoke

BUT IT’S NOT TOO COLD AND RAINY TO LISTEN TO METAL

THAT’S WHAT I’MMA DO

\m/

tumsperks:

How to break up with someone:

Give them a sock and tell them they are a free elf now

ittybittynymphette:

veevigil:

Calling a person trash after they state they may kill themselves, makes you a terrible person and you lose all credibility as a proper source for any kind of information.

That isn’t cool.  

Yeah… Agreed. It was a low blow.

Fuckin’ signed.  Rargh.

roguesareth:

nightskeptic:

lunar-lavender:

nihilistic-void:

queerlittlemermaid:

nornoriel:

nihilistic-void:

nihilistic-void:

will taking a bottle of 200 mg ibuprofen kill me

google says yes

I say no and if you want to talk my Ask is open.

Same here. If you need to talk, I’m here.

Why are you people reblogging this

Because we care about you even if you don’t?

Because when I say I care about the people who read my content, I mean it.

And THAT means that I stuck around for when things feel low.

I rarely feel up to saying I speak for others, but I think I speak for many of us when I say that we care about you, and you’d be missed.

Because I count you as a friend, and therefore give a damn about you and don’t want to see you do something incredibly stupid.

Same here.

I would miss you a lot.